Episode 638: Politics, Religion, and BNI (Classic Podcast) / 第638集:政治、宗教和BNI(經典播客)


第638集:政治、宗教和BNI(經典播客)



人們一直在問Misner博士,他的立場是什麼,或者說BNI對當前政治事件的立場。 Misner博士發現,在BNI裡談論政治或宗教不是一個好主意。我們在BNI的使命是通過一個結構化的、積極的、專業的轉介營銷計劃,幫助人們增加他們的業務,使他們能夠與優質的商業專業人士建立長期的、有意義的關係。



Misner博士在政治上和精神上一直都很活躍,但這兩者都與BNI無關。政治和宗教問題可能是非常分裂的。有許多表達政治和宗教信仰的好地方。 BNI不是其中之一。 BNI是一個國際組織,在世界各地都有分會,成員屬於各種宗教。它只有專注於自己的使命,才能取得成功。


這並不是說BNI成員不應該有強烈的政治或宗教觀點。我們只需要把他們排除在BNI的會議之外。

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第638集完整記錄






Priscilla:
大家好,歡迎回到BNI官方播客,由YouTube上的Networking for Success頻道為大家帶來的是Networking for Success頻道,裡面有 Dr. Ivan Misner和許多人脈專家。我是Priscilla Rice,我從加州伯克利的Live Oak錄音室為大家帶來了。今天我在電話中加入了BNI的創始人和首席願景官, Dr. Ivan Misner。你好, Ivan。你好,你今天在哪裡?





Ivan:
我今天在休斯頓,德克薩斯州。在去休斯敦的路上。本週我將在一個教練會議上發言。我很高興能去那裡。我在全球各地做演講。如果你是大公司的一員,並希望成為外部演講者,請告訴我們。我很樂意在這些活動中發言。




Priscilla:
那對您來說是一個很好的推薦。




Ivan:
是啊。這對我來說是個不錯的推薦,它需要一個有預算的組織。我不做免費的演講了。但如果他們有預算的話,請聯繫我。我會給他們聯繫上一個人。


所以,這就是我本週的工作情況。我在休斯敦的一個組織中發言,這個組織在BNI中非常活躍。因此,今天是一個有趣的話題:政治,宗教和BNI。




Priscilla:
是的





Ivan:
你知道,我現在決定做這個話題是因為世界上發生的所有事情,比以往任何時候都更多的是我被問到關於我的立場或BNI對當選的人的立場,或世界上正在發生的事情,如歐盟和英國的事情,所以有人問我,我們的意見是什麼。


我覺得真的有必要說一下,在BNI裡談政治和宗教不是一個好主意。這個話題已經有很多年了,我偶爾會提出來,但最近被提出來很多。所以我想是時候做個播客了。

在我做研究生工作之前,知道的人並不多。我的研究生工作是在組織行為學專業。我獲得的是政治學的學士學位。作為一個政治學專業的畢業生,我對政治真的很感興趣。而我現在也是如此。

但我不在BNI討論這個問題。為什麼?因為它讓我們的目光離開了球。我們在BNI的使命是幫助人們增加他們的業務 與結構化,積極和專業的引薦營銷計劃。這就是我們的使命宣言。使他們能夠與高質量的專業人士建立長期的、有意義的關係。


這就是我們的使命。 BNI之所以成為世界上最大、最成功的網絡組織,原因之一就是我們始終專注於我們的使命。我相信,任何背離我們的使命的事情,都會讓我們分心。而對於一個轉介組織來說,沒有比宗教和政治更大的分心了。

所以,我想大家應該明白,我從18歲開始,就已經是一名註冊選民了。從我18歲開始,我作為美國公民在美國的每一次大選中都投了票。在我的生活中,我的靈性也非常活躍。然而,這些個人行為都與我的BNI會員資格無關。

在我的一生中,我參與了許多地方、州和國家的政治活動。我也有相當成熟的宗教信仰。然而,除非你是我的密友,否則你不會也不會知道我的政治或宗教觀點。人們可能會對我的一些觀點,尤其是政治觀點感到驚訝。你知道,你只是可能會想到,也可能不會想到。我不討論它們。


我認為這一點真的很重要,因為我不適合在BNI發表這些意見,因為這可能是決定性的,可能會分散我們組織的使命。我明白,有些政治問題,有時是宗教問題,我們對這些問題有強烈的感情,我當然也有一些感受。

然而,我認為BNI不是進行這種討論的地方,因為這種討論幾乎總是具有分裂性。它使我們忽視了該組織的宗旨,即基於專業關係的引薦。


順便說一下,這也是我在組織成立之初,設置的原因之一,就是為了不邀請外部演講者參加BNI的會議。一般來說,他們要么是想推銷產品或服務,要么是想宣傳政治或公民決定。


如果他們想賣東西,他們應該加入一個分會。如果他們想宣傳某種政治或精神上的決定,他們需要在別的地方發言。如果是合適的場所,那是合適的,而且有很多。


BNI在世界上幾乎所有宗教都有信仰的國家開展活動。在我們所在的國家中,我想不出有哪個主要宗教在我們有分會的國家中沒有代表。我們所處的國家幾乎代表著世界上所有政治制度。


如果我們專注於我們的使命之外的其他事情,我們就不會有效果。幫助生意人通過推薦人獲得更多的推薦人。我想,很多商界成員或許在宗教和政治立場上有爭議。但在BNI,他們必須專注於關係和引薦的使命,這一點很重要。

這並不意味著成員和可能訪問BNI分會的人,這並不意味著他們是非政治性的。我相信許多會員和訪客都有強烈的政治和宗教信仰。他們的意見只是不屬於會議,在我們的播客或通訊中。

我認為這是真的。重要的是,如果我們想保持作為一個組織的使命, 我們離開這些話題在BNI的會議。你知道,Priscilla,我們不應該都知道嗎? 如果你真的想激怒別人就 跳進政治或宗教與他們 開始談論政治或宗教。     

我認為BNI確實是這樣。 我知道這是–就其本身而言是有爭議的,因為人們都說:“好吧,我有權講宗教。 我有權談論政治。”

是的。 在世界上大多數國家/地區都可以。 請不要只是在BNI會議上,因為它們往往會造成分裂,而不是使人們聚集在一起的東西。 這就是我們避免BNI中的政治和宗教的原因。 你怎麼看, Priscilla





Priscilla:
我完全同意, Ivan。我認為,如果人們開始談論他們對政治和宗教的立場,會造成極大的分裂。在我看來,BNI似乎是一個非常包容的組織,沒有歧視。我喜歡BNI的這一點,我認為保持這一點是很重要的。




Ivan:
你說的很有道理 BNI的目的是非常包容。我多年來一直說,當你把人帶進組織時,要非常有選擇地對待你帶來的人。我的意思是要非常有選擇地引進高素質的商業專業人員..... ...而不是基於宗教、性別、政治。你知道的,真正的高素質的商業人士。這就是你要有選擇地引進的人。當然,不是種族或其他的任何東西。

所以,我明白,當人們真的因為對自己可能有的觀點有強烈的看法而不能表達自己的觀點而感到不安時,我是可以理解的。我明白這一點,我讚揚他們有這些強烈的觀點。我只是知道,這些強烈的觀點在BNI的分會中會造成分裂。我知道這一點,因為我親眼所見。我的意思是,你認為我們怎麼會變成這樣?我們知道這一點,因為我們看到它發生在各分會。

你知道嗎? 歡迎您到外面就任這些職位。 請把它帶到外面。 不要在這裡





Priscilla:
嗯,我想,既然BNI遍布全球,你必須要有這樣的政策




Ivan:
是啊,很有意思在組織裡很早就有了這樣的做法。我很想聽你們這些有可能有過不好的經歷的人,為什麼要採取這樣的立場,我們都是為了業務和引薦營銷,互相幫助,互相支持。也許如果你有過不愉快的經歷,就把它告訴我們,讓其他人看到它可能會對組織造成的分裂。

好了,今天我就說到這裡,Priscilla。這將是很有意思的,看看大家對這個特別的播客的反應。我認為這是一個非常重要的 在這個時代。可能比現在更重要。我談論這個話題已經有很多年了。這就是我今天的全部內容,Priscilla。謝謝你。




Priscilla:
這是偉大的,Ivan,太感謝了。我只想提醒聽眾們,這個播客是由YouTube上的Networking for Success頻道帶來的。謝謝你的收聽。我是Priscilla Rice,我們期待著下週再次邀請您加入我們的播客頻道,為您帶來另一個精彩的播客節目。





Episode 638: Politics, Religion, and BNI (Classic Podcast)





People have been asking Dr. Misner what his position, or BNI’s position on current political events. What Dr. Misner has discovered over time is that talking politics or religion in BNI is not a good idea. Our mission in BNI is to help people increase their business through a structured, positive, and professional referral marketing program that enables them to develop long-term, meaningful relationships with quality business professionals.

Dr. Misner has always been active both politically and spiritually–but neither of these is pertinent to BNI. Political and religious issues can be extremely divisive. There are many great venues for expressing political and religious beliefs. BNI is not one of them. BNI is an international organization with chapters all around the world and members who belong to every religion. It can only succeed if it focuses on its mission.

That isn’t to say that BNI members shouldn’t have strong political or religious views. We just need to keep them out of BNI meetings.

Brought to you by the Networking for Success YouTube Channel.

Complete Transcript of Episode 638

Priscilla:
Hello everybody and welcome back to the Official BNI Podcast, brought to you by the Networking for Success Channel on YouTube, which features Dr. Ivan Miser and many networking experts. I am Priscilla Rice, and I am coming to you from Live Oak Recording Studio in Berkeley, California. I am joined on the phone today by the Founder and the Chief Visionary Officer of BNI, Dr. Ivan Misner. Hello, Ivan. How are you and where are you today?

Ivan:
I am in Houston, Texas today. On my way to Houston. I am speaking at a coaching conference this week. I am excited to be there. I do presentations all over the world. If you are part of a big company and looking to being in an outside speaker, let us know. I am always happy to go speak at these events.

Priscilla:
That would be a good referral for you.

Ivan:
Yeah. That’s a great referral for me. It needs to be an organization that has a budget. With as much travel as I do, I don’t do free presentations anymore. But if they have a budget, reach out. I will put them in touch with somebody.

So that is where I am this week. I am in Houston speaking in an organization that is very active in BNI. So today is an interesting topic. Politics, religion and BNI.

Priscilla:
Yeah.

Ivan:
You know, I decided to do this topic right now because of all the things that are going on in the world. More than ever, I am getting asked about my position or BNI’s position on people elected to office or things that are going on the world like the European Union and what is going on with the UK. So I am asked what our opinion is.

I think it is really important to say that talking politics and religion in BNI is not a good idea. The topic has been for many years brought up to me occasionally but it has been brought up a lot lately. So I thought it would be time to to a podcast on it.

Before I did my graduate work, not a lot of people know this. I did my graduate work in organizational behavior. I received a bachelor’s degree in political science. As a political science graduate, I was really interested in politics. And I still am.

But I don’t discuss it in BNI. Why? Because it gets our eyes off the ball. IT takes us away from BNI’s mission. Our mission in BNI is to help people increase their business with structured, positive and professional referral marketing program. This is our mission statement. Positive an professional referral marketing program that enables them to develop long-term, meaningful relationships with quality professionals.

That is our mission. One of the reasons BNI is the world’s largest, most successful networking organization in the world is that we stay focused on our mission. Anything that takes us away from our mission, I believe, is a distraction. And there is no bigger set of distractions for a referral organization than religion and politics.

So I think it is important for everyone to understand that I have been a registered voter since I was 18 years old. Since I was 18, I have voted in every major US election as a citizen of the United States.I have voted in every major election since I was 18. I have also been very active spiritually in my life. However, neither of these personal practices are pertinent to my BNI membership.

Throughout my life, I have been involved in many local, state, and national political campaigns. I also have pretty well-established religious beliefs. However, you don’t and you won’t know my political or religious views unless you are a close friend. People might be surprised about some of my, particularly political, views. You know, you just may or may not expect them. I don’t discuss them.

I think this is really important because it is not appropriate for me to espouse those opinions at BNI because it could be decisive and it could distract from our mission in our organization. I understand that there are political and sometimes religions issues about which we have strong feelings. I certainly have some.

However, I believe BNI is not the place for such discussions because they are almost always divisive. It takes our eyes off of what the purpose of the organization is, which is namely referrals based on professional relationships.

By the way, this is one of the reasons why in the very beginning of the organization, I set it up so that we didn’t invite outside speakers to participate in BNI meetings. Generally, they either want to sell a product or a service or they want to promote a political or civic decision.

If they want to sell something, they should join a chapter. If they want to promote a political or spiritual decision, they need to speak somewhere else. It’s appropriate if it is the right venue for that and there are many.

BNI operates in countries where almost every religion in the world is practiced. The countries that we are in, I cannot think of a major religion that is not represent in the countries that we have chapters in. We are in countries that represent virtually every political system in the world.

We wouldn’t be effective if we focused on anything else other than our mission. Helping business people get more referrals through referrals. We are proud of our emerging legacy of bringing people together. Many business members have, I think, maybe contentious religious and political positions. But in BNI, it is important that they focus on the mission of relationships and referrals.

This doesn’t mean that members and for that matter people who maybe visit BNI chapters- this doesn’t mean that they are apolitical. I am sure that many members and visitors have strong political and religious beliefs. Their opinions just don’t belong in a meeting, on our podcast or in a newsletter.

I think it’s really. Important that if we want to stay on mission as an organization, we stay off these topics at BNI meetings. You know, Priscilla, shouldn’t we kind of all know that already? Everybody, all my life, has said if you really want to anger somebody, jump into politics or religion with them, start talking about politics or religion.

That’s certainly the case, I think, in BNI. I know this is – in and of itself is controversial because people are like, “Well, I have the right to talk religion. I have the right to talk politics.”

Yes, you do. In most countries of the world, you do. Just not in a BNI meeting, please, because they tend to be divisive and not something that brings people together. That is the reason that we avoid politics and religion in BNI. What do you think, Priscilla.

Priscilla:
I totally agree, Ivan. I think it would be extremely divisive if people started talking about their position on politics and religion. BNI seems to me to be a very inclusive organization and non-discriminatory. I like that about BNI and I think it’s kind of important to maintain that.

Ivan:
You bring up a good point. BNI is meant to be very inclusive. I have for years said that when you bring people into the organization, be very selective about who you bring in. But when I say that I mean be very selective about bringing in a high quality business professional not based on religion, gender, politics. You know, really quality business people. That’s what you want to be selective on. Certainly not ethnicity or any of those other things.

So look, I understand when people really get upset because they can’t espouse their views because they feel strongly about views they may have. I get that and I commend them on having those strong views. I just also know that those strong views become divisive in a BNI chapter. I know that because I have seen it. I mean, how do you think we came into this position? We know it because we saw it happen in chapters.

You know what? You are welcome to those positions, just outside. Take it outside, please. Not in here.

Priscilla:
Well, I think that given that BNI is all over world, you have to have some kind of policy like that.

Ivan:
Yeah. It’s interesting- it has been out practice since early on in the organization. I would love to hear those of you who have maybe had a bad experience and why it is important to take this position that we are all about business and referral marketing and helping one another and supporting one another. Maybe if you have had a bad experience, tell us about it so that other people can see how it could potentially be divisive to the organization.

Well, that’s really all I have for today, Priscilla. It will be interesting to see how everyone responds to this particular podcast. I think it’s a very important on in this day and age. Probably more important than ever right now. I have been talking about this topic for many years. That’s all I have for today, Priscilla. Thank you.

Priscilla:
Okay, that’s great, Ivan. Thanks so much. I would just like to remind the listeners that this podcast has been brought to you by The Networking for Success Channel on YouTube. Thanks for listening. This is Priscilla Rice and we look forward to having you join us again next week for another exciting episode of the Official BNI Podcast.

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